"Compared to IQ, which some psychologists and educators feel is a relatively unchangeable quality, there is substantial evidence that emotional skills, such as self control, can be learned. The findings of this study highlight the importance of self control as a 'meta-ability' -- one that sits above and affects how poorly or well the other mental skills can be used."
Hmm. Sounds mighty familiar.
"Obedience training is useful, as is any education, when it is built on a foundation of self control. No matter how well educated or intelligent a person might be, if they have no behavioral option but to react to every comment or action or event in their lives, they will lead strange and disturbing existences that do not reflect their 'training.' Likewise, a 'trained' dog is not trained until he has learned self control."
Anyone else out there feeling convicted?

1 comment:
I can relate. Elke, our new pup is more high-spirited than our adult dog was at her age. Hence, she shows less self-control. She's coming along, but it's a slow going. We've all got our hands full with her.
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